Wednesday, August 13, 2014

The only thing constant in life is change

2013

“God can make more of us than we can ever make of ourselves. We can make a man. He can make a God.”

2014
 
While attending a Nationals baseball game a few weeks ago I reflected on an identical opportunity I had last fall as a brand new missionary. I took a picture with the same person and the same backdrop—I couldn’t help but wonder: how much have I changed?
 
The hopeful news for anyone who doesn’t like the person they have become is that through the Atonement of Jesus Christ we can change. We are never stuck with our poor choices, habits, lifestyles or imperfections.
 
Elder Donald L Hallstrom of the Presidency of the seventy talked about this ability to change in his recent talk “What Manner of Men.”  He shares a story of counseling with an older man who was struggling in his relationships.  While talking to him, the man exclaimed “Bishop, I have a bad temper, and that’s just the way I am!” Elder Hallstrom goes on to say “That statement stunned me that night and has haunted me ever since. Once this man decided—once any of us conclude—“That’s just the way I am,” we give up our ability to change.”
 
We often use the excuse “that’s just the way I am” to explain away behavior.
Change takes unbelievable courage—we have to sacrifice our will to the Lords.  It takes humbling ourselves and accepting that we can’t do everything on our own. It is a painful to be refined by the Lord.
 
Malachi 3:2-3
But who may abide the day of his coming? and who shall stand when he appeareth? for he is like a refiner’s fire, and like fullers’ soap:
3 And he shall sit as a refiner and purifier of silver: and he shall purify the sons of Levi, and purge them as gold and silver, that they may offer unto the Lord an offering in righteousness.”
 
Sacrifice: to give up something good for something better.
 
Find the courage to identify what you need to change and the strength to turn to the Lord for help!